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Love outweighs discipline

by Michael Davidsen

I’ve seen an illustration that shows a pair of scales with the words LOVE and DISCIPLINE. Parents are supposed to keep the two in balance.

But why does love need to be kept in balance?Real love should infinite, powerful, unbounded. The Bible never says “God is discipline.” Even Shakespeare wrote that “the quality of mercy is not strained.” What is the value of discipline if it has to temper love, if it isn’t itself a part of love?

Maybe the scales should have said something like AFFECTION and DISCIPLINE. Or positive love and negative love. Or pleasant love and unpleasant love. But if it’s not love, I don’t want to give it to my child.


Posted in Authoritative Parenting, Parenting Discipline on July 4th, 2007

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