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		<title>Important Re-Call Information: Action Baby Carrier</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 06 Sep 2008 02:13:59 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Stacy Ochsman</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[FOR IMMEDIATE RELEASE
September 3, 2008
Release #08-389 Firm&#8217;s Recall Hotline: (866) 208-0269
CPSC Recall Hotline: (800) 638-2772
CPSC Media Contact: (301) 504-7908
Optave Inc. Recalls Action Baby Carriers Due to Fall Hazard
WASHINGTON, D.C. - The U.S. Consumer Product Safety Commission, in cooperation with the firm named below, today announced a voluntary recall of the following consumer product. Consumers should [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>FOR IMMEDIATE RELEASE<br />
September 3, 2008<br />
Release #08-389 <strong>Firm&#8217;s Recall Hotline: (866) 208-0269</strong><br />
CPSC Recall Hotline: (800) 638-2772<br />
CPSC Media Contact: (301) 504-7908</p>
<h2><span style="font-size: x-small; font-family: Arial,Helvetica,Geneva,Swiss,SunSans-Regular;"><strong>Optave Inc. Recalls Action Baby Carriers Due to Fall Hazard</strong></span></h2>
<p><span style="font-size: x-small; font-family: Arial,Helvetica,Geneva,Swiss,SunSans-Regular;">WASHINGTON, D.C. - The U.S. Consumer Product Safety Commission, in cooperation with the firm named below, today announced a voluntary recall of the following consumer product. Consumers should stop using recalled products immediately unless otherwise instructed. </span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: x-small; font-family: Arial,Helvetica,Geneva,Swiss,SunSans-Regular;"><strong>Name of Product: </strong>Action Baby Carriers</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: x-small; font-family: Arial,Helvetica,Geneva,Swiss,SunSans-Regular;"><strong>Units: </strong>About 250</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: x-small; font-family: Arial,Helvetica,Geneva,Swiss,SunSans-Regular;"><strong>Manufacturer: </strong>Optave Inc., of Alpena, Mich.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: x-small; font-family: Arial,Helvetica,Geneva,Swiss,SunSans-Regular;"><strong>Hazard: </strong>The baby carrier’s chest strap can detach from the shoulder straps, posing a fall hazard to the baby.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: x-small; font-family: Arial,Helvetica,Geneva,Swiss,SunSans-Regular;"><strong>Incidents/Injuries: </strong>Optave Inc. has received two reports of the chest strap detaching from the shoulder straps on the baby carrier. No injuries have been reported.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: x-small; font-family: Arial,Helvetica,Geneva,Swiss,SunSans-Regular;"><strong>Description: </strong>The recalled carriers were sold under the “Action Baby Carrier” brand name. The carriers are sold in various colors and patterns: blue, brown, green, &#8220;so square&#8221;, &#8220;the larrisa&#8221; and &#8220;spring breeze.&#8221;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: x-small; font-family: Arial,Helvetica,Geneva,Swiss,SunSans-Regular;"><strong>Sold at: </strong>Specialty retail stores nationwide and Internet sites from May 2008 through June 2008 for between $80 and $90.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: x-small; font-family: Arial,Helvetica,Geneva,Swiss,SunSans-Regular;"><strong>Manufactured in: </strong>United States</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: x-small; font-family: Arial,Helvetica,Geneva,Swiss,SunSans-Regular;"><strong>Remedy: </strong>Consumers should immediately stop using the carrier in the positions that require the use of the chest strap and contact Optave to receive free replacement straps. </span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: x-small; font-family: Arial,Helvetica,Geneva,Swiss,SunSans-Regular;"><strong>Consumer Contact: </strong>For additional information, contact Optave Inc. at toll-free (866) 208-0269 between 9 a.m. and 5 p.m. ET Monday through Friday or visit the firm’s Web site at www.actionbabycarriers.com</span></p>
<div><span style="font-size: x-small; font-family: Arial,Helvetica,Geneva,Swiss,SunSans-Regular;"><img src="http://www.cpsc.gov/cpscpub/prerel/prhtml08/08389.jpg" alt="Picture of Recalled Baby Carrier" width="253" height="400" align="middle" /></span></div>
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<p><span style="font-size: x-small; font-family: Arial,Helvetica,Geneva,Swiss,SunSans-Regular;"><span><a href="javascript:send();">Send the link for this page to a friend!</a> The U.S. Consumer Product Safety Commission is charged with protecting the public from unreasonable risks of serious injury or death from more than 15,000 types of consumer products under the agency&#8217;s jurisdiction. Deaths, injuries and property damage from consumer product incidents cost the nation more than $800 billion annually. The CPSC is committed to protecting consumers and families from products that pose a fire, electrical, chemical, or mechanical hazard. The CPSC&#8217;s work to ensure the safety of consumer products - such as toys, cribs, power tools, cigarette lighters, and household chemicals - contributed significantly to the decline in the rate of deaths and injuries associated with consumer products over the past 30 years.</span></span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: x-small; font-family: Arial,Helvetica,Geneva,Swiss,SunSans-Regular;"><span> To report a dangerous product or a product-related injury, call CPSC&#8217;s hotline at (800) 638-2772 or CPSC&#8217;s teletypewriter at (800) 638-8270, or visit CPSC&#8217;s web site at <a href="http://www.cpsc.gov/talk.html">www.cpsc.gov/talk.html</a>.  To join a CPSC email subscription list, please go to <a href="https://www.cpsc.gov/cpsclist.aspx">https://www.cpsc.gov/cpsclist.aspx</a>. Consumers can obtain this release and recall information at CPSC&#8217;s Web site at <a href="http://www.cpsc.gov/">www.cpsc.gov</a>. </span></span></p>
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		<title>Car Seat Dilemmas</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 03 Sep 2008 15:11:42 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Stacy Ochsman</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[I have one car seat.  And we own two cars.  Nevermind that fact because we just keep the car seat with the baby, by which I mean the CRV with the professionally-installed car seat stays wherever the baby is staying.   Also, Marc&#8217;s car is a two-door and I cannot imagine crawling into the back seat [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.parentextremis.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/09/carseat.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-thumbnail wp-image-258" title="carseat" src="http://www.parentextremis.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/09/carseat-150x150.jpg" alt="" width="150" height="150" /></a>I have one car seat.  And we own two cars.  Nevermind that fact because we just keep the car seat with the baby, by which I mean the CRV with the professionally-installed car seat stays wherever the baby is staying.   Also, Marc&#8217;s car is a two-door and I cannot imagine crawling into the back seat with a twenty-two pounder, kneeling on the floor and wrangling him into the seat without completely losing my sanity.</p>
<p>We are going to Florida later this Fall to visit my in-laws for a week.  We will need a car seat, duh!  <a href="http://www.infant-car-seats.com/states/car-seats-laws-Florida.html">Florida</a> may not have a helmet law but you can be sure that my child will be locked into a very safe car seat no matter what state-law requires.  Oh by the way FLORIDA, a four-year old is not large enough to be safely restrained by a regular seatbelt, but  that&#8217;s a discussion for another time.</p>
<p>You don&#8217;t have to get the Britax Marathon (retail: $299) to have a safe seat for your child.  There are seats for less than $100 that meet all necessary safety standards.   I am referring to convertible seats, they are the seats that are rated for a 5-pound baby up to a 40-50-or even 60-lb toddler.  They can be moved from rear-facing to front-facing,  when your child is over one year of age.   Most people really like these seats because of their versatility and the fact that they are useful for several years.</p>
<p>I am planning to get a second car seat for my in-laws car, an <a href="http://www.target.com/Evenflo-Titan-Elite-Car-Seat/dp/B000YZ7ZRM/sr=1-15/qid=1220453288/ref=sr_1_15/602-0440115-8406251?ie=UTF8&amp;index=target&amp;field-browse=1038576&amp;rh=k%3Aconvertible%20car%20seat%2Cp%5F36%3A%2450-%2499&amp;page=1">Evenflo Titan Elite </a>maybe?  I particularly like this seat because it is rated front-facing for up to 50 lbs, and I think that will buy us an extra year of use with Noah.</p>
<p><a href="http://www-nrd.nhtsa.dot.gov/departments/nrd-50/ciren/networkreport/childrens.html">For more in-depth information about this subject, this article</a> published by the National Highway Traffic Safety Administration highlights some of the issues in finding a good safety seat for children and particularly, the types of injuries children often suffer.  There are some graphic pictures in this link.</p>
<p>What about you?  Do you recommend any particular car seats?  Do you strongly NOT recommend a certain one?  There are tons of different websites for safety ratings and personal reviews but from a simple usability standpoint, what&#8217;s your favorite? Why?</p>
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		<title>Why do I go to Extremes?</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 22 Aug 2008 17:58:40 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Stacy Ochsman</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[I took over this site back in February and I have always felt a little guilty for not posting more about, oh &#8230; those controversial parenting issues, you know, like bottle versus breast feeding and attachment parenting and the dreaded sleep-issues.  I haven&#8217;t been living up to the TITLE of this blog, writing about [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.parentextremis.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/08/571494_the_family_unit.jpg"><img class="alignnone size-thumbnail wp-image-252" style="float: left;" title="571494_the_family_unit" src="http://www.parentextremis.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/08/571494_the_family_unit-150x150.jpg" alt="" width="150" height="150" /></a>I took over this site back in February and I have always felt a little guilty for not posting more about, oh &#8230; those controversial parenting issues, you know, like bottle versus breast feeding and attachment parenting and the dreaded sleep-issues.  I haven&#8217;t been living up to the TITLE of this blog, writing about parenting EXTREMES.  Personally, I don&#8217;t parent in any of the extremes, at least I don&#8217;t think.  I have my nuttiness, as my husband likes to remind me, but for the most part I dabble.  I make some baby food, I buy some baby food, Noah sleeps alone, in his crib and he does get a little fussy sometimes and I don&#8217;t rush in to grab him,  I do use Tylenol for those teething moments and post-vaccine fevers, I do use a sling and a carrier but only BEFORE he reached 20-pounds and mostly for convienence, not because I thought we weren&#8217;t bonded enough.  So, I don&#8217;t really fall into any of the strong beliefs about attachment parenting and authoritative parenting and cry-it-out (Ferber/Weissbluth) versus Sears-method sleep training.</p>
<p>But!  Some of you do!  And I&#8217;d like to get some of those debates out in the open here at PARENT EXTREMIS.  It&#8217;s what we&#8217;re all about, when I&#8217;m not writing about <a href="http://www.parentextremis.com/toddler-issues/">nose-picking </a>and <a href="http://www.parentextremis.com/moms-sanity-tip-2/">Cabernet play dates</a>.</p>
<p><a href="http://typealice.com/blog/2008/08/06/crying-it-out/">TypeAlice recently</a> had a down and dirty comment war with another <a href="http://www.sundrymourning.com">blogger</a> about letting a baby cry and where to draw the line at ABUSE and WRONG.  It is hard to hear your baby cry but sometimes when they are really tired they cry for like 30 seconds before they fall asleep, after you have fed and comforted and rocked them.  Is that BAD?  To me, that isn&#8217;t crying, its more like, fussing.  Each parent has a different tolerance for hearing their baby cry and only each parent knows the line of a distress cry versus an I&#8217;m-annoyed-come-entertain-me cry.  And to some parents, it doesn&#8217;t matter, a cry is a CRY.</p>
<p>I think the problem comes when one parent thinks THEIR way is better and RIGHT for someone else.  But, who am I to judge?  I buy baby food and put my baby in a stroller??</p>
<p>What are your thoughts on these extremes?  Food, sleep, etc &#8230; do you dabble in the &#8220;methods&#8221; or do you follow one more than another?</p>
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		<title>Toddler ISSUES</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 21 Aug 2008 17:32:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Stacy Ochsman</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[Kids are dirty.  The play on the floor, roll in dirt, pick up ants and often don&#8217;t even notice when a their faces are a veritable artist&#8217;s palate.
One of the all-too common, all-too joked about stomach-turning habits of toddlers is &#8230; NOSE PICKING.
The average 2-3 year old toddler is just curious about his body [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Kids are dirty.  The play on the floor, roll in dirt, pick up ants and often don&#8217;t even notice when a their faces are a veritable artist&#8217;s palate.</p>
<p>One of the all-too common, all-too joked about stomach-turning habits of toddlers is &#8230; NOSE PICKING.</p>
<p>The average 2-3 year old toddler is just curious about his body and what comes out of it.  You can encourage frequent nose-blowing to try and ward off any mining.  Also, you can correct these gross personal-grooming habits by reminding kids that this isn&#8217;t clean and they should use a tissue and possibly do it in the bathroom rather than at the table. During a family dinner. With your in-laws.  They will outgrow this behavior, it just takes time.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.parentextremis.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/08/fish-soap.jpg"><img class="alignnone size-thumbnail wp-image-246" title="fish-soap" src="http://www.parentextremis.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/08/fish-soap-150x150.jpg" alt="" width="150" height="150" /style="float:left"/></a>Often, toddles will also refuse to bathe and wash their hands.  Getting dirty is fun and not really a big deal to kids.  We, the parents are the one who know about germs and colds and dirt and bacteria.   However, a little dirt usually won&#8217;t hurt anyone but not washing before eating or after using the toilet can become an actual health concern.  You can battle this behavior by making a fun time of getting clean.   Kids like choices. They like to make their own decisions and effect their own lives.  Give them options, &#8220;Do you want to wash in the kitchen or in the bathroom?&#8221; Also, splurge on the sudsy foamy-bubbles antibacterial kid soaps.  This should encourage them to clean up a little bit.  But again, you are the parent and you must remind them what is best and override their desire for dirt when you know that being clean is a must.</p>
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		<title>Mom&#8217;s Sanity Tip #2</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 18 Aug 2008 14:50:04 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Stacy Ochsman</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[Wine!  I highly suggest keeping a good bottle of cheap wine in the house at all times.  It&#8217;s very nice to have a calming glass of wine after the kids go to bed each night.  There are nights when that little treat renews me and lulls me into a ready-for-sleeping calm that [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.parentextremis.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/08/wine-glass.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-thumbnail wp-image-237" style="float: left;" title="wine-glass" src="http://www.parentextremis.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/08/wine-glass-150x150.jpg" alt="" width="150" height="150" /></a><strong>Wine! </strong> I highly suggest keeping a good bottle of cheap wine in the house at all times.  It&#8217;s very nice to have a calming glass of wine after the kids go to bed each night.  There are nights when that little treat renews me and lulls me into a ready-for-sleeping calm that I haven&#8217;t been able to channel sans alcohol since well before I had a baby.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m not at all advocating alcoholism or drinking as a means of managing the stresses of parenthood, however, it is a good coping tool!  But, if you would rather consume a more benign substance, try an herbal tea or <a href="http://www.goaskalice.columbia.edu/3838.html">warm milk</a> which is proven to help you sleep, and gives you a good dose of calcium and protein.  Milk contains very small doses of melatonin and tryptophan that tend to have a sleepy calming effect on the body and mind.</p>
<p>Alcohol consumption during pregnancy is not recommended, however if you are breastfeeding it can be safe, in moderation.  Alcohol can be found in breast milk but the amounts are small, however, it is recommended that you have only one and no more than two drinks per day while nursing.  Although, two drinks each day and every day isn&#8217;t suggested, so, you know, be smart about it.  Alcohol doesn&#8217;t stay in breast milk, it does get metabolized by the body so you don&#8217;t necessarily need to pump and throw away the milk.  <a href="http://www.bellaonline.com/articles/art15896.asp">For more information about alcohol consumption while breast-feeding, visit Bella Online.</a></p>
<p>A good nighttime tea to try is Celestial Seasonings Sweet Apple Chamomile.  It is all natural, free of calories and caffeine.  If you prefer an organic tea, try Sweet Clementine Chamomile Organic Herb Tea, also by Celestial Seasonings.</p>
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		<title>What do you feed your baby?</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 14 Aug 2008 13:56:12 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Stacy Ochsman</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[I started feeding Noah a mixture of baby rice cereal and purees of fruits and vegetables right around his six month birthday.  True to family form: He ate everything we gave him and never spit out one bite.   We take our food seriously around here.
So here we are, almost eight months old [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.parentextremis.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/08/book.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-thumbnail wp-image-229" title="book" src="http://www.parentextremis.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/08/book-150x150.jpg" alt="" width="150" height="150" /style="float:left"/></a>I started feeding Noah a mixture of baby rice cereal and purees of fruits and vegetables right around his six month birthday.  True to family form: He ate everything we gave him and never spit out one bite.   We take our food seriously around here.</p>
<p>So here we are, almost eight months old and I&#8217;m getting a little bored with his food.  I actually make about 75% of his food, and not because I am a <span style="text-decoration: line-through;">SAHM</span> WAHM SUPERMOM but rather, it is CHEAPER. Like, seriously cheaper.  A jar of Earth&#8217;s Best Spinach and Potato (Stage 2) is $.76 at a local grocery store.  A bag of frozen organic chopped spinach is $3.99.  If I steam and puree the spinach it will make more than one ice cube tray of frozen spinach blocks, a minimum of twenty meals.</p>
<p>When I first started I would make a huge mess of puree all over the kitchen.  I used all the spoons in the drawer and I had leaky watery stains of spinach green and cherry red all over myself and my counter.  I am happy to report that I have gotten much better at containing the food and getting it cooked, pureed and frozen in the time it takes Noah to individually toss ten cheerios onto the floor after first licking them and showing them to the dog.</p>
<p>I just found <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Top-100-Baby-Purees-Healthy/dp/0743289579/ref=pd_bbs_sr_1?ie=UTF8&amp;s=books&amp;qid=1218680259&amp;sr=8-1">this book</a> this week and I&#8217;m really excited to make some new foods for Noah.  This book tells you how to make something as basic as a puree of carrots to something more complex like fish and meat and pastas.  I also really like the section at the beginning discussing baby health and nutrition.  It is short and concise; well suited for a mother to read while her baby crawls into the kitchen to play in the dog&#8217;s water bowl.</p>
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		<title>Getting ready for going back to school</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 08 Aug 2008 03:49:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[It&#8217;s that time of year again kids &#8230; time to put away the flip-flops and swimsuits and breakfast at 10am while watching Noggin, time to starting going to bed ON TIME and start using those new binders with the questionable factory-plastic smell.  Parents:  Can you  hear that tune in the distance, it [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.parentextremis.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/08/back-to-school.jpg"><img src="http://www.parentextremis.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/08/back-to-school-150x150.jpg" alt="" title="back-to-school" width="150" height="150" class="alignleft size-thumbnail wp-image-224" /style="float:left"/></a>It&#8217;s that time of year again kids &#8230; time to put away the flip-flops and swimsuits and breakfast at 10am while watching Noggin, time to starting going to bed ON TIME and start using those new binders with the questionable factory-plastic smell.  Parents:  Can you  hear that tune in the distance, it sounds to me like &#8230;<em>CELEBRATE GOOD TIMES, COME ON!</em>.</p>
<p>Yeah folks, it&#8217;s back to school time!</p>
<p>I bet you didn&#8217;t know that you can be creative and make a lot of your school supplies, or at the very least, spruce up that bland notebook with something as simple as MASKING TAPE.  Readers Digest just recently published an article about the many <a href="http://www.rd.com/advice-and-know-how/extraordinary-uses-for-masking-tape/article23891.html">creative uses of masking tape!</a>  We&#8217;re not talking about just labeling folders here, you can fix a broken umbrella and design a road for Matchbox cars all using this wonder tape.</p>
<p>You can get creative, resourceful and organized with a few tips and products like aluminum foil and an old milk-crate or cardboard box.  </p>
<p>Did you know that you can use aluminum foil in place of a brillo pad to scrub a soiled pot?  Uncrumpled you can lay a sheet of it flat on the bottom of the oven to keep drippings from baking on to the oven.    </p>
<p>You can use old return address labels for all those pesky school supplies that are always getting lost.  A missing pencil bag might just find its way back home with an address label affixed to its side.  </p>
<p>Click <a href="http://www.rd.com/advice-and-know-how/homemade-school-supplies/article24650.html">here to read the entire article </a>on Homemade School Supplies and learn some great tips for labeling, organizing and using everyday household items in new ways.</p>
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		<title>Teething &#8230;</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 06 Aug 2008 18:15:21 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Stacy Ochsman</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[Teething is a bit of a mystery for us first time parents. I have been convinced that Noah was teething since he was about a week and a half old so clearly, my observations are not to be trusted.  Fast forward to NOW, Noah is seven months (32 weeks) and I suspect a tooth [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.parentextremis.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/08/teething-tablets.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-thumbnail wp-image-217" style="float: left;" title="teething-tablets" src="http://www.parentextremis.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/08/teething-tablets-150x150.jpg" alt="" width="150" height="150" /></a>Teething is a bit of a mystery for us first time parents. I have been convinced that Noah was teething since he was about a week and a half old so clearly, my observations are not to be trusted.  Fast forward to NOW, Noah is seven months (32 weeks) and I suspect a tooth is just about on the horizon.</p>
<p>Teething is a bit of a gray area at this time because I can&#8217;t tell which tooth might be coming in first.  Most babies get the two bottom teeth first, although I have known plenty of babies who get five teeth on top and then no others for months on end.</p>
<p>Teething can begin as early as three months or as late as a year.  The averages are around &#8230; seven months.</p>
<blockquote><p><strong>Some <a href="http://moxie.blogs.com/askmoxie/2006/03/qa_pain_relieve.html">common symptoms of teething </a>are:<br />
* biting hands or anything that comes near their mouths<br />
* crying out in yelps of pain<br />
* drooling<br />
* runny nose or congestion from drooling<br />
* &#8220;smokers&#8217; cough&#8221; from the drool going down the back of the throat<br />
* spitting or throwing up from drool going into the stomach<br />
* &#8220;drool stool,&#8221; which is shards of drool in the poop (I know, and it&#8217;s truly stunning when you see it)<em><a href="http://www.askmoxie.com">Moxie</a> says it&#8217;s true!)<br />
* rash around the mouth<br />
* rash around the anus<br />
* acidic poop (sometimes you can even smell the difference) and a burned monkey-butt look after pooping<br />
* tugging or pulling at the ears<br />
* not wanting to nurse<br />
* biting while nursing<br />
* flash fevers (fevers that come out of nowhere, don&#8217;t last, and are gone in 30 minutes to an hour)</em></strong></p></blockquote>
<p><em>Teething remedies will be discussed in a later post &#8230; </em></p>
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		<title>Rough Days</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 06 Aug 2008 01:59:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[It was a hard day, Noah was difficult.  Cranky? Drooly? Teething? Constipation? Crawling difficulties? Sleep Regressions? The Wonder Weeks?
Cabernet Savignon is the answer whatever you think the question may be!
Alas, Noah has a rough day and I can&#8217;t attribute it to any one factor.   But other than today I am finding seven [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.parentextremis.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/08/sleeping-baby.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-thumbnail wp-image-206" title="sleeping-baby" src="http://www.parentextremis.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/08/sleeping-baby.jpg" alt="" width="100" height="74" /style="float:left"/></a>It was a hard day, Noah was difficult.  Cranky? Drooly? Teething? Constipation? Crawling difficulties? <a href="http://moxie.blogs.com/askmoxie/2006/02/qa_what_are_sle.html">Sleep Regressions?</a> The Wonder Weeks?</p>
<p>Cabernet Savignon is the answer whatever you think the question may be!</p>
<p>Alas, Noah has a rough day and I can&#8217;t attribute it to any one factor.   But other than today I am finding seven months to be a cheerful and enjoyable age.  For the most part Noah sleeps well and eats well and plays well.  We have garnered ourselves a decent routine that seems to be more challenging for me than for him.</p>
<p>I do know a few other parents who are still having a lot of trouble getting their six and seven month olds to sleep well.  Here are some recommendations originally published on <a href="http://www.parents.com/toddlers/sleep/issues/5-tips-for-easing-your-babys-bedtime-struggles/?sssdmh=dm17.328493&amp;esrc=nwaspo&amp;email=1263095349">Parents.com.</a></p>
<blockquote><p><strong>1.</strong> <strong>Give your child a quiet and calm period before bedtime. </strong>Figure out which activities are effective in calming your child. For many, it&#8217;s reading, singing, or a warm bath. Sticking to a regular routine will help your child understand that it will soon be time to go to sleep. Limit television viewing, video games, and active play shortly before bed.</p>
<p><strong>2. Set a consistent schedule.</strong> Decide on a time for your child to go to sleep and make bedtime the same every night. His sleep patterns will adjust accordingly.</p>
<p><strong>3. Encourage your child to take a favorite teddy bear or special blanket to bed. </strong> These comforting items often help children fall asleep &#8212; especially if they wake up in the middle of the night.</p>
<p><strong>4. Make sure your child is comfortable.</strong> Make sure that she is comfortable with the temperature in her room and that she&#8217;s wearing pajamas that fit well. She may also feel more at ease with a drink of water, a night-light, or the door left slightly open.</p>
<p><strong>5. Avoid returning to your child&#8217;s room every time he calls out.</strong> A child will quickly learn if you always give in to his requests at bedtime. However, it&#8217;s important to reassure your child that you are there if he needs you. Try waiting several seconds before responding and taking longer each time he calls out. (A few minutes of crying is okay, but listen to your baby and if he seems to be in distress go to him.)</p>
<p><em>Source: American Academy of Pediatrics</em></p></blockquote>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 30 Jul 2008 01:42:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Parent&#8217;s Magazine has a new list of the best books for children, broken down by age.
I have very strong memories of my Dad reading me Dr.Seuss books.  I love the crazy words, the images and the wacky scenarios.
Reading to children is one of the best activities and gifts you can give them.  It [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Parent&#8217;s Magazine has a new <a href="http://www.parents.com/family-life/entertainment/childrens-books/">list of the best books </a>for children, broken down by age.</p>
<p>I have very strong memories of my Dad reading me Dr.Seuss books.  I love the crazy words, the images and the wacky scenarios.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.parentextremis.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/07/seuss.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-thumbnail wp-image-201" title="seuss" src="http://www.parentextremis.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/07/seuss-150x150.jpg" alt="" width="150" height="150" /style="float:left"/></a>Reading to children is one of the best activities and gifts you can give them.  It is calming, bonding and promotes conversation about things you may not have talked about otherwise.  Also, hearing the rhythm of language and sounds teaches kids about language and improves their own language skills.  Reading promotes imagination and play, a venue through which kids learn.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.childliteracy.com">Child Literacy (dot com)</a> recommends the following based on age:</p>
<blockquote><p><strong class="red">For babies and toddlers up to 2 years</strong></p>
<ul>
<li>point at pictures and say or ask names of things (depending on age)</li>
<li>use a slow sing-song voice</li>
<li>use different voices for different characters - be entertaining</li>
<li>spend time talking about the pictures before turning the page</li>
<li>say a name and ask your older baby or toddler to point to the item</li>
<li>give huge praise each time your child points at and names an object</li>
</ul>
<p><strong class="red">For 2-4 year-olds</strong></p>
<ul>
<li>give your child time to look at the pictures before you read</li>
<li>ask, &#8216;Where&#8217;s the&#8230;?&#8217; &#8216;What&#8217;s that called?&#8217; &#8216;What&#8217;s she doing?&#8217;</li>
<li>always follow text with your finger as you read</li>
<li>with familiar stories, see if your child can join in or finish phrases</li>
<li>ask questions like: &#8216;Why did he do that?&#8217; &#8216;What happens next?&#8217;</li>
<li>discuss things you both liked/didn&#8217;t like and why</li>
</ul>
<p><strong class="red">For 4 year-olds and over (and possibly some 3 year-olds)</strong></p>
<ul>
<li>as for 2-4 year olds</li>
<li>ask your child if he can remember the order of events in the story</li>
<li>try <a href="http://www.childliteracy.com/paired.html">paired reading</a> (sometimes called shared reading)</li>
</ul>
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